Wondering aloud. ....
Do people change? Or situations change? Or
just time ? All or none?
Children, I've heard , have the undistorted understanding of things. What you
see is what you get. As we grow older, with various influences directly
or indirectly, there is a change. Analysis and situation and context is
added to the simple thought.
With time , the thoughts and influences change and so does the pattern of life.
Difference of preferences are obvious between
two persons
This can b attributed to their personalities
which again maybe influenced by their situations and surrounding and so on.
How about differences in preferences for the same person over a period of time?
Also notable. Especially in cases where we hear
-" you used to like mango as a child , now what happened?"
- " you enjoyed rock music in school, now your stuck with jazz?"
-"before marriage you used to call me every hour, now you don't even have
time to answer my calls":-/
And to all the above , the common factor is " look how you have
changed". Sometimes change cannot be attributed to the one person who is
supposed to have changed. It might be a combination of reasons :
Situations, priorities, context - these change with time and mostly as ones
life progresses.
Still wondering aloud. ....
Do people change? Or situations change? Or just time ? All or none?